Oli has now stayed in 4 rooms within the transplant ward. He has been in a high dependancy room, a not-so-quite- high dependancy room, a goodbye-you’re-going-home room, and as of half past 8 this evening an unlucky-you-might-be-here-until-Christmas room.
The past two days haven’t been quite so bad for him. Yesterday I went to see him along with two really good friends of ours and we merrily chatted for hours and helped Oli almost forget that the day sucked because he wasn’t well.
Today he was definitely starting to struggle with the idea that the goal of going home is getting harder to reach. One of the highlights of his day was being interviewed by a lovely lady from the Daily Mirror – the article will be in tomorrows (Friday 21st Dec.) paper. I repeat in case you weren’t paying attention – BUY THE DAILY MIRROR TOMORROW BECAUSE OLI WILL BE IN IT. I think that’s clear now, don’t you?
This afternoon became a bit of a battle against nausea and tiredness. He’s had a rough couple of days, along with the physical presence of the latest infection, he has also had to use a lot of mental and emotional energy in trying to keep positive and not get too upset about staying in hospital.
Unfortunately, no matter how many members of staff say that Christmas on the ward is fun, being part of Christmas on the ward is a big reminder that you’re not remotely well enough to go home. Fingers crossed however, the decision to keep him in hasn’t been made yet and we still have a few days to get the infection under control and get Oli home. It’s difficult to get into the Christmas spirit though.
As we left this evening Oli’s mood had changed again to being resigned to his fate, come what may. Hopefully he’ll get visited by three ghosts this evening who will each help him find the fight to carry on. I know it’s tough, I’ve been there, different situation but I’ve been in hospital over Christmas. The big difference for Oli is that he still has a glimmer of light at the end of the tunnel which will lead him home for Christmas dinner.
Plus he’s already received the greatest gift possible so Christmas is already better than it was going to be.
Don’t forget to buy the Mirror tomorrow – you’ll get your first glimpse of Oli post-transplant!
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