New Year: that traditional time when we’re all encouraged to make resolutions that tend to last until the furry green stuff has finally caused us to throw the left-over turkey from the fridge.
New Year is all about fresh starts, do-overs and re-trys and each year begins with the hope and expectation of great things to come. All too often, however, that feeling of hope and expectation is coupled with a sense of disappointment that we didn’t achieve all that we hoped we would at the dawn of the outgoing year.
Instead of focusing on what we don’t want and haven’t got, why not choose to focus on what we do want, but also what we already have?
In his book “I Can Make You Rich” hypnotist and self-help guru Paul McKenna suggests a version of the following exercise:
Take a moment to stop and think what you would do if you had all the money you needed. You can imagine heaps of cash piled on your kitchen table, you can imagine many, many zeroes showing in black on your bank statement, or you can just imagine having a card in your wallet or purse that will never be declined no matter what you’re trying to buy with it.
Now think about the things in your life that are important to you. If you had that unlimited source of funds, what would you change? Would you change:
- Your house?
- Your car?
- You husband/wife/partner?
- Your friends?
- Your job?
- Your hobbies and interests?
- Your family?
Any of these things to which the answer is ‘No’ is an area of your life where you’re already rich.
While we’d all love to be snowed under with all the money would could handle, a Rich Life is defined by more than just monetary gains.
Yes, money lets you do things you wouldn’t ordinarily be able to do1, but the happiness that it brings comes not from the money itself, rather from the feeling of richness and empowerment it gives you.
Wealth is about enjoying what you have in your life that brings you happiness and fulfilment. Whether that’s writing, filmmaking, doing your job well or spending time with your kids, make yourself this one resolution this New Year:
I will strive to achieve happiness in all that I do.
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